Sunday, November 20, 2011
Bloom's Tax in Pirates?
Friday, November 11, 2011
Friday Blue~
Sunday, November 6, 2011
Frowning~
After not blogging for quite some time, I am resuming my blogging activity with a very negative entry.... My feelings are clearly depicted in the article below which I stumble upon while reading The Star... I've been thinking, weighing the good and the bad, mulling over and the indecisive me will have to continue frowning for quite some time before making a decision.. It has been long since I feel happy, perhaps the pursuit of unhappiness has engulfed me completely... Only frowns, tears and tantrum, where are my smile, laughter and satisfaction? Sigh~
Sunday November 6, 2011
The pursuit of unhappiness
By JEANISHA WAN
NOBODY in her right mind wants to be unhappy. Everyone wants to pursue happiness. It is our relentless goal to be happy at all times.
If so, why then do we do what is contradictory and make ourselves constantly unhappy?
It is probably due to our reluctance to accept the fact that life IS unfair, and having the idea that we DESERVE certain things.
We feel unhappy because we think we deserve to be appreciated by people – our boss, colleagues, parents, children, even our staff. We feel unhappy because we think we deserve a raise, promotion or more fame, or we want things to go the way we wish, but they don’t.
We feel unhappy that some people get rich instantly through fraudulent means or by mismanaging our money, even as we labour to death. We feel unhappy that being nice did not get us anywhere, while those who were conniving and selfish got to go where they wanted to be.
We feel unhappy because we think that we deserve attention, fair treatment and having people be pleasant to us. That they will thank us, applaud us, heck, even help us. When none of this happens, it makes us tremendously unhappy.
Expecting people to be good and fair is bound to make us unhappy. Because life is NOT fair. It is only when we accept the fact that we deserve nothing, that we will be surprised by goodness and fairness. And, in doing so, find happiness.