An Instant CONFIDENCE Injection

i came across an article entitle ThE nO-EXCUSES guide TO GETting Wat U Want
in cleo september issue, n gosh, it was so me....
-suffer from the 'not-good-enuff' syndrome
-people-pleasers
-put my own needs on hold for others
-don't say out loud what i think becoz am worried what others might say
-how i feel bout myself depends on how people treat me

bulls eye to all..........
certainly i'm suffering from negative self-image according to the writer...

it's time for this old fashioned, conservative, straight and boring girl to transfer...

7 ways to update my image
i) abandon negative body language & maintain eye contact
ii) buy something which usually afraid of buying
iii)get rid of the need to always look perfect & appear perfect to others
iv) answer in a different way when picking up the phone
v) stop believing everyone's else opinion is more valid than my own
vi) flirt with someone just for fun
vii) smile when someone looks at me

it wud be fantastic if i happen to become a girl possessing those criteria...
however, number 6 is kinda taugh for me.. LOL..

simon said-i mean simon mak- "Christina, u r the oni 1 havent transformers"
apparently, there is a lecturer and a teacher once said that i'm very pessimistic and cynical but sensible...
-everything has been so negative, i mean i have been very negative all along-